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author of When Bullies Attack - Self-Defense for Kids
Email my main business email Computerhelp808@gmail.com
How often do you see
someone brag about being expensive? That's because of my
qualifications. I'm Sensei J. Richard Kirkham B.Sc.. I've
been in martial arts since 1973. I went to college and studied
physical education. THAT MEANS, that I not only have developed a
highly effective, proven means of self-defense, I, unlike most of my
honored, fellow martial artists, am a trained teacher. I spent four
years being trained to teach physical activities. I've applied
these teaching methods to build a no b.s. martial arts and
self-defense method that gets results from day one!
In this scenario the evil attacker played by yours truly Gets the innocent church member
Jaz by the neck as
She tries to escape the restroom.
Jaz quickly executes a headbutt
surprising and injuring the attacker
Forcing him to lose his grip
I Don't Have Enough Room Mr. Kirkham in My Home for Private Martial Arts Lessons
Did I mention space requirements? If you can take one giant step in each direction and
one giant step in each direction for me that's enough room.
Otherwise find a place. No I don't want to rent a place. The
average person won't even think about private, in home, REAL
martial arts training unless he or she is attacked. You, by reading
this much, are not the average person. Furthermore I want to help all
of Oahu. By me going to that rare individual interested in real, old
school, martial arts training for self-defense, I put a stop to the
two excuses for not learning to defend yourself and your loved
ones in this day and age.
want to travel that far to learn self-defense
Which is why I come to you.
I'm too tired after work for martial arts training
The less someone has to do something, the
more likely it will get done. So just sit, relax and wait for me.
I'll be there shortly.
Why You Learn So Quickly with My Martial Arts Training Methods
Part of my college and experience background is in behavior management
This means I can take your fear of fighting and turn it into a weapon! I've done
this privately with a bullied
elementary school kid,
an abused woman
a single lesson to a student on his way to college
a middle aged man
and a blind man.
These are just some examples of successful
private in home self-defense training.
Don't Be a Whiny Wisher
Not used to being talked to like that? Tough, leave the web page! You're looking
for an excuse not to learn this anyway right?
Wait, you're not looking for an excuse not to learn martial arts privately in your home?
So quit saying you wish you could do something and JUST DO IT! Prove to yourself you're
not a whiny little wisher who never gets anything done. This is
straight talk, old school. No P.C. crap!
Why is This a Proven Martial Art and Self-Defense System?
I've had cops
and soldiers tell me this was how and what they were taught.
More importantly, and I'm not proud of this, when I was in my
twenties I thought I had something to prove to my fellow martial
artists. This was before MMA (a nice sport). So we fought each other
full contact. I took my lumps and gave them back. I learned a lot the
hard way. My bent nose is a reminder along with the scars on my
knuckles. Naturally, at my age and not born with a silver spoon in my
mouth, I've had my scrapes in the streets as well. Again, not
bragging just stupid stuff that, at the time, I thought couldn't
What's Expensive Mr. Kirkham? How Much Does Private In Home Martial Arts Training Cost?
With the attacker's attention on
his aching face
Jaz strikes the attacker with a
hammer fist to the groin
For what you're
learning and how quickly you're going to learn, it's not
expensive. $95.00 per hour is my going rate. Yes, if you want to you
can get a group of people and split my rate. I'm not heartless
and I do want to help people learn to defend themselves.
This is Oahu. There Are Plenty of Nice Looking Karate Schools Out There Ready to Take Your Money
The martial arts instructors, for the most part, are sincere in what they want you to
learn. Depending on the martial arts style and the instructor, it
could eventually be effective. They're even cheaper in their
price than me since they teach in large groups and sometimes have contracts. The karate students
often wear nice white uniforms and stand in straight lines practicing
their martial arts techniques in the air, sometimes in front of
mirrors. It all looks very good and feel free to get signed up with them if that's what you want.
Do You Give Private In Home Martial Arts Lessons Full Time Mr. Kirkham?
Most people don't even think about learning old school martial arts. They think they'll
never get robbed, beaten up or raped. Quite often people wait until
they get mugged, beaten up or raped or even worse, a loved one is
robbed, beaten up or raped and the person is unable to protect the
loved one before he/she even considers self-defense lessons. I took
the tenacity and discipline I learned in martial arts and used it to
become one of the
best onsite and in home computer, cell phone and tablet tutors, trainers, virus removal specialists and repair experts on Oahu
So, unless more of you wake up to the danger in our society, I'm
teaching this very effective martial art and self-defense system part
time. I will NOT start a commercial karate school. I'm going to
train one person at a time and have the right to refuse to train
smart-alecs, wannabees and whiny wishers. Even with being selective,
my time is going to be limited.
What Will I Learn During Private In Home Martial Arts Training Mr. Kirkham?
An old nickname of mine is 'The Drillman'. I have drills for everything and
firmly believe anything is trainable. If you want, invite partners to
do self-defense drills with you of different heights and weights.
Blocking and Evasive Techniques First
learn blocking and evasive techniques. The average person's
number one fear is getting hit. Especially in the face. That fear is
often greater than the actual pain felt during a punch to the face.
Having been punched in the face a few times myself, I can tell you
during combat it really doesn't hurt that much. Our bodies
produce adrenaline and epinephrines during our fight-flight response
which you, as one of my private martial arts students, will learn to
use to become even more dangerous. You will not freeze as some people
do in a fight.
mean you won't get punched and you may even get hit by accident
during your martial arts training. Sometimes I'll do it lightly
with enough of a sting so the lesson is remembered. I told you, old
school. The world is not made of cotton candy and pillows and it's
my job to prepare you for it even more than you may or may not be
Where to Punch Kick and Strike Your Attacker
As the attacker bends over in pain
from the groin
Strike Jaz strikes the attacker's
Painful and Injurious Areas to Punch and Kick Your Attacker
you'll learn the proper areas on the human body to strike to
get the self-defense situation over with as quickly as possible and
perhaps not get the guy's or gal's friends involved due
to the fast and devastating way you took their friend out. You will
be trained to do this while emulating fear and fight-flight as part
of your training. Yes, it can be done and I've done it with
martial arts drills I've developed myself.
"My Body is My Weapon. My Mind The Trigger" Sensei J. Richard Kirkham B.Sc.
learn what weapons you have on your body. Your mind is the most
powerful weapon. You'll learn to use that and your attacker's
own mind against him/her.
Punch Kick and Strike REAL F'ING HARD!
you'll learn to punch, kick and strike REAL F'ING HARD!
In one five minute lesson, I once showed an MMA fighter how to
increase the power of his roundhouse kick. I even told him how I
hated teaching other black belts because they always 'yeah butt
me' (note the two t's). Sure enough I showed him and he
said, 'Yeah but now I'm off balance. ' I told him
that's because he wasn't used to kicking with so much
power. He replied he was happy with his power.
What person or good
martial artist or MMA fighter is ever completely satisfied with
his/her power? That was pure laziness and ego. I'll be
screening for ego's as I decide whether or not I'll take
people on as private martial arts students.
Defending Yourself from The Side and Back
learn to utilize these martial arts and self-defense techniques and
tactics from any angle. Believe it or not,
- You will rarely be attacked from the front
- You will not have time to get into a 'fighting stance'
- You will not have
time to prepare for the attack which is why I prepare you NOW!
This is a weakness I've seen from the many martial arts schools I've personally visited!
The assumption that being attacked from the side
or from behind requires the same techniques and reflexes and
therefore doesn't need to be practiced is JUST WRONG!
Modern Weapons Use and Defense
With an aching face, groin and
Through an injured throat.
Jaz finishes the attacker off with
an elbow strike
To his head as the attacker deeply
regrets his actions.
Private In Home Weapons Use and Defense Lessons Honolulu Hawaii Covering all of Oahu
learn weapons use and defense. No I'm not going to teach you
'nunchucks'. You'll learn to defend yourself with
tools you have now such as pencils, pens, keys etc.. I'll also
teach you to use weapons and defend against them so you can
understand the strengths and weaknesses of these weapons. They
- Knife use and
- Cane use and defense
- Baseball bat use and
- Gun defense (no not
You get the idea.
What you can find or may have on you will become and extension of
your already weaponized body.
Not The End for Your In Home Private Martial Arts Training
enough already. There's a lot more but, you get the idea.
Will My Private Martial Arts Training Help Me Lose Weight?
Sure it will, but if
that's your only goal join a gym. It looks nice and pretty and
everyone will tell you what a great job you're doing. My
personal theory has always been if I'm going to try to get into
shape I want to do something to protect the shape in which I want to
What Type of Equipment Should I Have for In Home Private Self-Defense Lessons?
- Mouth piece
- Guys cup and
- Girls Groin pad
- Girls Chest
- Loose fitting
clothes you don't mind getting dirty
- Gym shoes. On
special days we'll use our everyday shoes or slippers
- If we need gloves or
anything I'll let you know. I also have some gloves.
DO NOT forget your safety equipment
You're private martial arts lesson will not change
though you may remember it better if you know what I mean.
On to more questions or whiny excuses.
I'll let you decide which they are.
Mr. Kirkham I'm Not In Good Shape. Shouldn't I Lose Some
Weight First Before Taking Private In Home Martial Arts Lessons
For legal reasons here I'll state you should always seek advice from a professional in the medical field before participating in any physical activity. Everyone happy? Here's my response: If you've seen
most martial arts instructors that have trained and taught a long
time you'd already know there is no need for that. I'm a
grey headed, overweight old man who can probably take you in a fight.
I'd rather not. I'm through fighting and want to be
peaceful now but, my point is physical fitness is only a small factor
in a self-defense situation. A guy twice my size and twice my fitness
level will still scream in pain when I break his knee and snap his
wrist within 15 seconds of the attack.
Wish I Could Take Private In Home Martial Arts Lessons But I Don't Have The Money
Whiny wisher? I'll
let the readers decide. Okay okay, I've been dirt poor. So poor
I felt lucky if I found change. So here's what I'll do.
If you send me computer
business, I'll give you $20.00
per new client who keeps his/her appointment.
If you send me private in home martial arts training students AND I
accept him/her as student, I'll give you $20.00 per student who keeps his appointment for his/her lesson.
NOW, if you say you
want lessons and don't take advantage of this then YES, you are
a whiny wisher. Work on that before you call me or you'll end
up quitting anyway. Quit is a four letter word to martial artists.
How Do I Contact You for Private In Home Martial Arts Training Mr. Kirkham
If your first question is how much are my lessons I'm going to tell you to
read the web page and hang up on you. Read this web page in its
entirety. Make sure you know what old school martial arts training
is. Perhaps you'll find something in the page as an excuse not
If you've read
the web information and whiny excuse page AND you live on Oahu call or text Rick Kirkham at
answer this is Rick Kirkham of InHomeComputerHelp.com
how may I help
you. Like I said, that is my main business and not enough of you will
do the right thing and take private in home martial arts lessons even
after you're attacked. So I'm not changing the way I
answer the phone. My primary email address is
I look forward to at least speaking to you after you read the web
page. I will then ask you why I should train you. Have a good